Why Family Photos Matter to Me

For years, I dreamed of having beautiful family photos - the inbetween moments laughing, walking, holding hands or just being together. My daughter Holly has additional needs, and for a long time, I made excuses: “We don’t need them,” “I can take them myself!,” or “I don’t have to be in them.” But deep down, I wanted those photos - I knew it was important for me to be in them, both as a legacy for my children and for myself.

So I did it. And they were beautiful. Yes, it felt strange being on the other side of the camera, but it was a wonderful experience, and I only wish I had done it sooner.

For me, it’s especially about the moments we as extra-needs parents may not always get — when they may take your hand (even if they don’t usually like it), come up for a quick kiss every now and then, or share a smile that melts your heart. Experiencing this is one thing, but being able to freeze these moments to look back on is priceless.

So to all the additional needs mums and dads out there, I know it can feel overwhelming but you can have it too and I’ll be there to guide you through each step, helping you capture the most beautiful images of your family, just as you are.